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# Is the cult of the individual eating society alive?
- URL: https://onemanandhisblog.com/2003/08/is_the_cult_of/
- Published: 2003-08-11T12:43:10.000Z
- Updated: 2015-04-08T08:41:41.000Z
- Author: Adam Tinworth
- Tags: drinks, Politics, pubs, rights, society

Still, Iain has highlighted something my wife and I have whiled away  
many hour discussing. When did the British get so anti-social. Once the  
stereotype of Brits abroad was of painfully polite, post-Imperial  
types. Now we have the sex’n’lager image that has replaced the football  
hooligans of a decade ago. Frankly, it’s reaching the point where I’m  
ashamed to call myself British. Once my reaction to the story of the [British family arrested in Greece](http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/3111223.stm?ref=onemanandhisblog.com) would have been outrage at the way they were treated. Now it’s suspicion about the way they were behaving.

The problem hit home to me early last year as my wife, my  
mother-in-law and I caught a taxi home from a party in a Bristol city  
centre hotel. The taxi passed through the main drinking area, and  
people were literally throwing themselves on the bonnet of the car to  
try and force it to stop and pick them up. The whole square was a mass  
of drunkenness, vomit and semi-nakedness. Frankly, I was scared. The  
taxi driver told us, with deep resignation in his voice, that this was  
a normal Saturday night for him. Brave man. Last night, my  
mother-in-law’s car was pelted with stones as she drove home, thrown by  
youths who had decided that the best way to celebrate the heatwave was  
to spend the day drinking themselves stupid.

It appears that, increasingly, the most important right in British  
society is the right to have fun exactly the way you want to have it,  
and the hang the consequences to anyone else. The recent brouhaha about  
the [parties on Newquay beach](http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=%2Fnews%2F2003%2F08%2F11%2Fnewq11.xml&ref=onemanandhisblog.com) is yet another example of this.

The rights of the individual are important. It’s a pity too many  
people are just too stupid to realise that you have to protect the  
rights of others as you exercise your own right to enjoy yourself. It’s  
common courtesy. It’s politeness. It’s *society*.