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# Social media and the annihilation of self
- URL: https://onemanandhisblog.com/2016/06/social-media-masochism-self-annihilation/
- Published: 2016-06-22T09:51:17.000Z
- Updated: 2016-07-03T19:51:55.000Z
- Author: Adam Tinworth
- Tags: psychology, Social Media

One of the cornerstones of much social media theory is that it enables a constructed self: we show off the best version of ourselves. And it’s a neat theory that explains some of the depression people experience after spending time on social media – they compare the reality of themselves with the constructed ideal versions of others.

But it doesn’t explain some of the more harrowing and self-revealing postings on social media. Could there be an element of mascohism at play, too?

That’s what Rob Horning argues in [Social Media as Masochism](http://thenewinquiry.com/blogs/marginal-utility/social-media-as-masochism/?ref=onemanandhisblog.com)

> Much of social media is a calculated effort to “accumulate” esteem and grant agency. It seems plausible that the intense self-consciousness of ongoing social-media use (certainly a “recalcitrant social environment,” despite its responsiveness) could trigger an intense need to escape from self. Social-media use intensifies self-consciousness through a deeper awareness of the contingencies and vulnerability of our identity, leading to a greater need to escape from it, or at least suspend our consciousness of it.

A fascinating idea.